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Article Source: His Wife Doesn't Want Sex - Is He to Blame?

I was looking at a web site the other day that had a story about a European country that was considering tightening up the laws against prostitution. As a follow-up to the main story was an article about three men who regularly used prostitutes, and the reasons why they did.

One of the men - all younger than 40 - openly stated that he hadn't had sex with his wife for over 5 years. This intrigued me. My initial reaction, and most probable reason, was that his wife had lost interest. Not necessarily lost interest in sex, but lost interest in her husband. This is a marriage where the ultimate end is near.

A successful marriage relies to a large degree on sexual compatibility. That is the ability of each partner to satisfy the other's sexual requirements. This requires an effort by each person to put the interests of the other before their own pleasure.

In the case of the man whose wife rejects his sexual overtures, the most likely reason for the wife not wanting his sexual advances is because of his inability to arouse her and then bring her to an orgasm. In other words, his sexual incompetence may cause the complete break down of their marriage. Whilst this may not be the real reason, it certainly is the most probable.

To put it bluntly, the man appears to be a selfish and inconsiderate lover. He has his bit of fun, but he can't give his wife what she expects from him. He's either deliberately selfish, or he doesn't understand what a woman wants. After 5 years of marriage, he's obviously a slow learner. He needs help - fast.

This man obviously doesn't know one of the basic facts to a happy and contented relationship:

'What makes a woman good in bed?'

'A good man'

The first thing he should know is that a woman needs more time than a man to get aroused. Regularly attempting sexual penetration before full arousal will turn a woman off. He needs to put more effort into this aspect of his love making.

He should also be aware that there are several ways in which a man can give a woman an orgasm. Using only one way time after time is guaranteed to make a woman bored. Variety is the spice of life not only in what we eat, but also in sexual matters. A sure-fire way to keep her interested.

For a man to vary his efforts to give his wife an orgasm, he firstly has to know what methods work. From vaginal penetration ; stimulating her clitoris with the end of his penis; rubbing her clitoris with his fingers; and using his mouth and tongue to achieve clitoral excitement, all will satisfy most women. Whilst the level of excitement will vary from method to method, and from woman to woman, a man with this ability will be considered to have a more than adequate sexual repertoire.

Those men who only know of the one traditional way to have sex - the missionary position - may not be able to excite their wife by vaginal penetration. To put it simply, their penis may be too small in relation to the size of the wife. This is where knowledge of the other methods of bringing a woman to orgasm is essential. Then a man with the smallest penis can still fulfill his marital obligations towards his wife.

However for a man who wants to vaginally satisfy his wife but is unable to do so because his penis is not large enough, then there are products on the market that will help him to get a longer and thicker penis.

The most popular type of product is a penis enlargement device that works by placing the flaccid penis in a cradle and slowing lengthening it by minute increments. Over a period of time, the penis will permanently get longer and thicker.

Incorporated with some of the better quality enlargers are videos and online programs designed to add spice to a relationship. Some device systems also have as added bonuses herbal enlargement pills to improve libido and blood flow to the penile shaft.